Frequently Asked Questions
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I have been counselling people for more than 15 years and am an accredited member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. In the following section, some of the questions that clients frequently asked are answered, but I will always be pleased to supply further information.
How do I choose the right counsellor or psychotherapist and what's the right approach to search for?
The research suggests that the way you relate to your counsellor or psychotherapist is the key factor when looking at successful outcomes. There are many different theoretical approaches and from these I blend a combination of the Psychodynamic and Humanist. However, the rapport we establish and the sense of good potential in our initial session, will be central. When you meet me or any other therapist for an introductory session, you will see if there is a comfortable feeling of being on the same wavelength. Do you feel listened to and do you feel understood? If I or any other therapist picks up on your cues and gets the point when you explain something, then these are signs that the therapy will be successful.
How does counselling or psychotherapy work?
We begin with meeting for a 55 minute introductory session where you talk about your reasons for coming to therapy and what results you would like from having it. You may decide from week to week if you want a further session; after a couple of sessions, if you choose to continue, I can recommend short term or longer term counselling, but it will depend on what works for you.
Although we talk only about you, my style is friendly and conversational. We'll explore the issues on your mind and what they are doing to your life. We'll look at the coping strategies that you use; where they keep you stuck and where they are still useful to you. We'll work through these so that you can stop repeating in a way that harms you and help you to be free of these patterns. In our search, we'll find out about your early experiences and how they still weigh on you, holding you back from progressing and having the life that you hope for.
Can I arrange sessions after work?
Yes, subject to availability, I offer sessions in the evenings.
What should I do in the sessions?
I guide the sessions for clients who want a clear structure but If you prefer to just start talking about what is on your mind, we will begin there and the work will take shape in a more organic way. Either way, I will keep us on track towards your targets. It takes courage to try counselling for the first time. or to see a new counsellor but follow your instinct that you need someone to talk to and to listen to you. You may have had so much advice that it’s hard to ‘hear yourself think’. I will help you to speak freely and open up to me when you feel ready.
What does it cost?
I charge £55 for an individual introductory session, (concessions negotiable). Thereafter sessions costs for individual work is £65, discretionary rates available.
Is there homework?
In the session I can take your through visualisations and exercises that work with your destructive parts. When you ask for this kind of help to cope between sessions, I can also prepare you in this way.
Some people like to write down issues or thoughts to bring to the next session and it is fine to work this way regularly or occasionally, as you prefer.
How long are sessions?
Fifty-five minutes.
Is it confidential?
Yes, I work as a fully accredited member, under the ethics and guidelines of the BACP (British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy) and I comply with GDPR requirements. These make sure that therapy is a safe place where you can talk about private thoughts or feelings, including those that are upsetting you. I will give you a calm setting where you can discuss and share your worries.
Is short or long term therapy right for me?
Short term therapy focuses upon recent issues or your feeling that you are not behaving or feeling as you normally do e.g. coping with a recent loss, shock or change. Highlighting and managing sources of stress, or a specific problem you need to solve, may be things which bring people for short term therapy. Usually, there is a focus agreed upon from the beginning and this provides a framework for the following sessions.
For issues which have a longer history such as repeating destructive patterns in relationships or how you treat yourself, difficult and traumatic early years, or an established addiction, phobia or compulsive behaviour, therapy will take more time. This is partly because trust between a therapist and client is not instant. It is also because our working relationship will need to be strong enough to become a healing resource, in itself.
Will I be told what to do?
No but I will help you to work out what you think about problems you need to solve, especially when you have already had a lot of confusing advice.
How often do sessions take place?
Once weekly but this is only a guideline.
Can I ask my GP to refer me for sessions?
You may be able to; though this will usually be for short-term therapy (8-12 sessions). It is worth talking it over with your GP. They often have a particular counsellor attached to their practice, but you could request counselling that uses a method of your choice.
Is there any funding available for counselling that I might be able to apply for?
Yes, funding for 8-12 counselling sessions may be offered to you by an Employment Assistance Programme, a Healthcare organisation, or a Workplace Wellbeing company and I am registered with WSM (Wellbeing Solutions Management ). Although the target may be to help you continue in your job or to get back to working, you may well find that you talk about a wide range of issues from the personal, financial or physical, to the politics of the office. Your anxieties will lead us to the sources of your depression or dissatisfaction. There are a wide range of reasons why people come to therapy, and it is you yourself that knows, when you have reached the point of asking for help. I am here for you, when you are ready to reach out.
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Richmond upon Thames
West London